When you spend over over 30 hours on planes and in airports with your kids you really want to make sure that you can keep them entertained. I did it WITHOUT breaking out the ipod. Don't get me wrong, I love the ipod, but one doesn't work so well for two children and the battery life just isn't that great. I got so tired of trying to find good ideas online. People would talk about long flights across the US and I would think, really? I have done that and it is a piece of cake. What can I do for a long trip knowing I will be carrying it all myself and going through security in each country?
I know, you are thinking that the kids should sleep a good chunk of that 30 hours, especially since our first flight was at 8:00 PM. Nope. Justin didn't sleep until the last hour of the entire journey. He woke up around 5:00 AM the day we left so yes, my five year old was awake and busy for over 40 hours before he finally crashed.
We also had some other items that were given to us. One friend gave us Snakes and Ladders (the size of the checkers set we took) and another small game (I can never remember what it is called or how to play, but my boys have made up their own rules) and we didn't get to those either.
Another friend gave us dot to dot books. Justin enjoys them, but sometimes it was hard when it was bumpy. She also gave us a really cool crayola set that I have not seen in the US. It had small markers (like the pipsqueaks) and a variety of small projects (finger puppets, paper dolls, picture frame, mobile, etc. AND all necessary materials to make them. The projects were small and it came in a very compact package. We didn't get to that on the trip either. I have let Ryan do some of the projects during church and it has worked out well. I will probably keep some in my purse in case we have to wait at the doctor's or a restaurant and they need something to do.
My boys also LOVE measuring tapes. I had those in the bag as well. They work better in airports where they can move a bit more freely and measure things. They also like to use the measuring tapes when playing with some of their small figures. The measuring tapes can be made into nests, slides, leashes, snakes, and heaven knows what else. Ryan enjoyed his mostly broken slinky. It is tangled beyond untangling, but it still has a little bit of bounce. He held it by one end and bounced it along as he walked through airports. It really distracted him while waiting in lines or trying to cover long distances between terminals.
I did not take play doh because sometimes I have had it taken from me in screenings. Even if they just pull it out of the bag for inspection it slows me down. My kids like a lot of accessories for play doh too and that means more bulk to transport.
Snacks are definitely the biggest help of all for me on trips. My boys had so many different Angry Birds and Mario fruit snacks that I am surprised they didn't turn into one! They like to sort them, play with them, and then eat them. Crackers in fun shapes and pez dispensers with refills are big hits with them too. I try to get some less junky things for them to eat, but really it is the junk that keeps them happy. As long as they don't get sick, I am thrilled that it keeps them happy and quiet.
Before flying I checked to see if there would be movies/shows for my children to watch. Our flight from Frankfurt to San Fransisco had the Lorax. They boys watched that at least six times. There were a couple of other cartoons (maybe an hour or so) appropriate for them as well. Having this meant I didn't have to worry about hauling around DVDs, not that the DVD player can last that long anyway.
For the record, I can fit in the airplane lavatories with both boys. It isn't pretty, but it sure beats the days of changing their diapers in there! I convinced Ryan that he should wear a "cool Diego pull up" instead of "boring underwear" just in case. I am so proud of him for making it through the whole journey dry. He has been trained for some time but I didn't want to risk it. I have probably traumatized him for life, right?
I have also found band aids and/or masking tape helpful for limiting the boys' access to controls that are on the seat arm. Who wants to call the flight attendant every five minutes? Cover up the button and no worries! They also like to band aid/tape themselves (or me) up.
Our next BIG trip will be from Idaho to Armenia. I am sure I will be planning it months in advance. I would rather have too much than not enough. I also know that I will be the one who ends up hauling all of the carry on bags (hand luggage).
Hope this gave you some ideas of what you might be able to use for your next trip. If not, it will help me remember what I can pull out.